On Sept. 3rd, Washington Times
published "When Sex Ed becomes Porn 101" by Robert Rector, an expose
of how dishonestly our public schools are claiming funding for, and
delivering, "abstinence" training in sex-ed. (see
"The fact is...
abstinence-plus programs do contain: explicit demonstrations of
contraceptive use — especially condoms — and direct encouragement to
An example of this training includes promotion of homosexuality: Two
females, "Tyceia" and "Felicia," are told to "begin negotiating safer
sex" together. They've been "sexually active with males in the past,"
but now they can "accept" their bisexuality. Male students aren't
excluded: "Gerald" is told that "Allen has never used condoms. You
want to have sex with him, but not without using condoms."
When I was a child, in health class we were
given a heavy emphasis on brushing our teeth and toothpaste. In
today's health class, the emphasis is on spiritual decay and
lubricants: "If you were trying to find something around the house, or
at a convenience store, to use as a [lubricant] substitute, what would
be safe? Why? ... Some 'grocery store' lubricants are safe to use if
they do not contain oil: grape jelly, maple syrup and honey."
There is talk in California of cutting
expenses by cutting Driver's Ed. Instead of learning how to drive a
car, apparently today's Dept. of Education has determined it's more important to
teach kids how to race with condoms and cucumbers:
"Each person on the team must put the condom
on the dildo or cucumber and take it off," the program says. "The team
that finishes first wins."
In drivers-ed, they showed us films about the
bloody consequences to irresponsible racing (scraping bodies off the
highway). But in sex-ed, students are not shown the consequences of
irresponsible sex racing. Why not show them the painful, decaying,
slow death of AIDS, abortions, herpes and
weeping pregnant teens?
Lawsuits have been filed over the homosexual
assemblies to children as young as 2nd grade. There is no hesitancy to
go after our youngest. Now "...teachers can show kids as young as 13
'how to make condoms fun and pleasurable.' For example, 'Once you and
a partner agree to use condoms ... go to the store together. Buy lots
of different brands and colors. Plan a special day when you can
experiment. Just talking about how you'll use all of those condoms can
be a turn-on.' "
Educators often boast of their latest
techniques of "critical thinking." In the sex-ed arena, asking
children to think for themselves is not hampered. "Teachers are told
to have kids 'brainstorm ways to be close. The list may include ...
body massage, bathing together, masturbation, sensuous feeding,
fantasizing, watching erotic movies, reading erotic books and
magazines ...' ."
Deviously accepting money for these
"abstinence" trainings, public school programs also include, among
other things, to go on a "condom hunt" to local stores to survey the
various types of family planning methods and ask: "What's the cheapest
price for three condoms?" While they're shopping for condoms, to 'put
down the store's hours, too, because it may be important to know where
to get protection at some odd hours'."
In order for parents to ask the schools to
administer aspirin or any form of medication, a windstorm of paperwork
must be filled out. Yet these programs refer children to family
planning clinics. Some schools even give children time off during
school hours for abortions. The CDC advises teachers to tell students
who might worry about what Mom and Dad think, "you do not need a
parent's permission ... no one needs to know that you are going to a
Not all schools are going to these depths. I
talked with my son's friends who do take these classes and they all
say that at our local school, there has been no homosexual promotion
so far (thank God). Yet moms of students in previous years have told
me how angry and embarrassed their daughters have felt as they were
encouraged to participate in birth control, when they were determined
to remain faithful to Christ and abstinent.
Parents, find out what is going on in your
children's schools, because on the national level and with the
backing it, our schools are pressured nationwide to promote the
homosexual lifestyle along with pre-marital sex.
I was also cautioned about the free-for-all
question/answer segments after sex-ed lessons. That children ask the
teachers anything they want. If you know kids, this can get very
explicit, and the teachers are forced to answer these questions
carefully, giving positive reinforcement about homosexuality/anal sex.
They have no choice, to say anything discouraging could end up in an
ugly lawsuit about discrimination to homosexuals, thanks to the
demands of the
movement and the ACLU.
PARENTS: IF YOU ARE NOT 100% SURE HOW YOUR
SCHOOL ADDRESSES SEX ED, OPT YOUR CHILDREN OUT OF SEX-ED
NOW! Many parents don't even realize that these classes are given
under innocent sounding names such as "Health and Family Living." Even
at my son's school, when I asked to have him opted out, the secretary
looked me straight in the eye and said, "These
classes are mandated." I replied, "I am certain I can opt my son out of
sex-ed" and my son is happy to be in metal shop. DO NOT LET
YOUR SCHOOL BLUFF YOU. Schools should be fighting to discourage
rampant sexual activities as "sport sex" and promote abstinence,
rather than encourage sex as our state legislators, i.e. a
California Assembly is trying to
Do we realize what we've lost by our sexually
active pasts? We have paid such a huge price and it has weakened our
marriages. How much more precious would our husband or wife be, if we
knew that they had never "known" anyone else sexually? How much more
special would our marriages be, how much more worth fighting for if we
knew our husband or wife had only been intimate with us? Divorce rates
are sky-rocketing, and I ask myself, would I have been so easy to ask
for a divorce if my ex had been my first and only sexual partner? And
I, his? That would have been a unique and sanctified bond, almost
unheard of today, public education should strive for this goal rather
than encourage sexual experimentation beginning in middle school.
I remember watching an episode of Seinfeld
with my son, something I wouldn't normally do. But this episode was
about Seinfeld and Elaine agreeing to sleep together as "friends" and
they couldn't do it. It doesn't work. This gave me an opportunity to
talk to my son about why: The Bible was right when it told us that we
spiritually unite our souls with those we sleep with. Something
happens and a bonding takes place, creating a mix of emotions
including jealousy and possessiveness, even if we intellectually tell
ourselves it's just for pleasure and nothing more. It can't be done.
Not even Jerry and Elaine could succeed. And every person that we
slept with in our pasts has had a cheapening effect on the precious
gift that God gave us in what was supposed to be a sanctified
marriage. Virginity should be an honorable endeavor, not something to
be chastised for. Public schools make it all the more harder for
students of virtue to maintain that standard. In my opinion, the
current Department of Education is a brood of vipers deserving of
public flogging. Is that unChristian? Jesus Christ said it would be
better for those who offend our little ones if there was a millstone
wrapped around their neck and thrown into the sea. Call me an intolerant Christian, because the
corrupting of our precious children should not be tolerated! WOE to
those who do so!
YOUR CHILDREN OUT OF PUBLIC SCHOOL SEX-EDUCATION! This is not
sex-education, this is spiritual murder. Real protection of our
children doesn't come with a condom, (there is proof that AIDS is
transmitted right through condoms). Protection of our children comes
with parental love and care, development of our children's
self-esteem, vigilance, boldness and prayer. Be a parent. Fight
for your children. Opt them out of sport-sex education. This kind of
sport is fatal. ~jen shroder
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